let's get personal… mental health, sexuality, and love

2020 25 ژوئن
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Hello friends, let’s catch up! :D In today’s chatty video, I answer your questions from Instagram about mental health, what I’ve been doing in quarantine, moving to NYC with royally bad timing, screenwriting, questioning my sexuality, whether I have girl/boyfriend, sustainability, and more importantly, who is my favorite Avatar character. Sorry I haven't sat down and really talked to the camera in a while - it's been hard to film when I'm in the sad vibes zone which has been increasingly often of late, but it felt nice to catch up with you guys, and hopefully as quarantine restrictions lift, I'll start feelin a little better :)
top: emory park (old, similar: bit.ly/3dFHffi)
hair bow: urban outfitters (bit.ly/3dyu7IO)
earrings: i designed them! (enroutejewelry.com/collections/bestdressed/products/pearl-leaf-earrings)
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Rachel Nguyen ➭ irworld.info
Damon Dominique ➭ irworld.info/lost/H5mdDlZ0haTodJmSxhst2w
Yale Open Course on African American History (oyc.yale.edu/african-american-studies)
UCLA Course on African American Studies (irworld.info/show/fy-lm-h-y/mpSDd7J1p7uFxpE.html)
rainy sunday from epidemic sound (bit.ly/2VW00n4)
✰ FAQ ✰
what’s your name? ashley
what’s your instagram? @best.dressed
how old are you? 22 (born in 1998)
how tall are you? 5'5"
what’s your ethnicity? half british and half burmese
what equipment do you use to film?
➭ main camera: panasonic lumix gh5s (amzn.to/2Nb0W1z)
➭ 12-35mm lens (amzn.to/2JiSrz7)
➭ on camera mic: rode videomic pro+ (amzn.to/2QHfZBU)
➭ voiceover mic: blue yeti usb mic (go.magik.ly/ml/yshp/)
➭ vlog camera: canon g7x mark ii (amzn.to/2DfL4cZ)
➭ canon m50 (amzn.to/2Dp1bnk)
➭ editing: final cut pro
FTC: Not sponsored. Some of the above links are affiliate links, meaning I earn a small percentage of sales made via those links, but it doesn’t cost you anything extra!

  • I miss you 🥺

    Michelle BlanquetMichelle Blanquetپیش 2 روز
  • Really love how creative you are and how refreshing it is to watch your videos. You’re so honest and raw, and I’m honestly in love with your sense of humor. I hope you keep at this from your fellow Burmese supporter!! ✊

    W LW Lپیش 5 روز
  • I'm not going to lie. It hurt when she said "even though I didn't need to hear it from a christian woman" when she was explaining the tiktok video she saw. I don't know the exact implements to what she meant by that, but if she felt something watching the video, it shouldn't of mattered what religion they are if that's in fact what she way applying to. Just my thoughts. Roast em if ya want.

    Handler HereHandler Hereپیش 6 روز
  • I think you adopt a pet , that might help you in your loneliness

    kpopper 121kpopper 121پیش 6 روز
  • They'll never tell you that TikTok is the biggest funder of the Gay Agenda

    Reb Ayse GedukReb Ayse Gedukپیش 6 روز
  • Honestly this video made me realize that evryone are going through tough times .. usually when I watch all these IRworld vlogs where everything is perfect I kinda feel that only I am going through so much shit it made me really insecure

    kekekekeپیش 10 روز
  • I'm in love with you

    SehrishSehrishپیش 11 روز
  • You are my favourite imaginary friend this quarantine

    Mia B.Mia B.پیش 12 روز
  • and now she's never coming back because of a bunch of assholes :((((

    MarinaMarinaپیش 15 روز
  • You can still buy Super 8 film??? I'm in shock.

    Z. Z. Le MansZ. Z. Le Mansپیش 17 روز
  • MERCH IDEA!!!! "don't project manic pixie dream girl syndrome on me i'm not manic i'm just depressed" should be written on a white t-shirt w/ a drawing of a semi-grotesque(the kind of drawing style you did on your painting vid) fairy/pixie

    물만두물만두پیش 17 روز
  • At least you won't regret that you did not live your life.☺️💲💲💲🙂🙃🙃🤗💕💕👀👀💕👀🇬🇷

    Natasa stacy K.Natasa stacy K.پیش 24 روز
  • This girl gives me so much tenderness that I just want to hug her and tell how much valuable she is in the eyes of God. You are his princess, you are not alone my darling ❤️❤️❤️ also you have a huge youtube family, we all love you! :]

    DorisDorisپیش 25 روز
  • “a satire about frat boys” excuse is that “kevin gets laid” because that was pure cinematic gold. just beautiful.

    cheers, cassidycheers, cassidyپیش 25 روز
    • for anyone curious, it’s at 8:00 in ashley’s “week in my GlAmOuRoUs life” video.

      cheers, cassidycheers, cassidyپیش 25 روز
  • I miss her

    Tongko UmbonTongko Umbonپیش 25 روز
  • whats up with people’s grammar in the comments lmaooo

    mochimochiپیش 26 روز
  • I’ve just broke up with my first love , we ‘ve been toghether for 4 years . Even thought he is an useless person I’m still deeply in love . I’m always the person who say sorry and think for him , I try everything to save our relationship because we were a happy couple , we were never lie to each other . And then we go to and end without fighting , and I think he have another girl - the reason why he did not try his best for our relationship . I’m here because your video really heal my soul . Thanks u Ashley 💜

    Nguyễn Đặng HươngNguyễn Đặng Hươngپیش 27 روز
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    Jesse HeidgerkenJesse Heidgerkenپیش ماه
  • i bursted out laughing @5:45

    Sek PlusSek Plusپیش ماه
  • ok , yall ... this gurl iza starr get used to it ...

    junk junkjunk junkپیش ماه
  • Sometimes she sounds like a machine

    Josue MendoncaJosue Mendoncaپیش ماه
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  • I know you stole that soulmate quote from Daniel Sloss. I SEE YOU! 😂

    Nicole SkinnerNicole Skinnerپیش ماه
  • Ashley I just wanna say that I’d die of happiness if you hyped up my outfit and gave me therapy and tampons in a random bathroom

    Soy SanSoy Sanپیش ماه
  • Have you ever considered ADHD? I just found out for myself and it helped me SO MUCH. I see a lot of my ADHD related traits in you.

    L JL Jپیش ماه
  • Linn3aLinn3aپیش ماه
  • Do u have OnlyFans page

    The Pursuance of PassionThe Pursuance of Passionپیش ماه
  • I love this woman!

    Gopika VelayudhanGopika Velayudhanپیش ماه
  • Tbh, I believe I'm bi, but I don't have a lot of experience. I never went out with a woman (I did date men), but I realised (too late) that I was in love with my best friend... or I think I was in love with her (?). Like, she was the person I felt the closest with... like, she was a part of me (?), but I only started longing for her like crazy when I lost touch with her. (My favourite music video since I was young was also womanizer by britney spears and, hey, come on, could i be any more obvious?) What I want to say is: it's okay to not be sure. It's okay if you don't want to put a label on yourself. Take your time.

    Schmitt CamilleSchmitt Camilleپیش ماه
  • YES! I love that you're taking classes to become a more well rounded person! And I love that you're sharing it because you're certainly going to inspire so many more people to do the same. I feel that work culture these days and societal standards give us the impression that we should focus on one thing only, but we really shouldn't. Yay for more well-rounded people and polymaths! Let's become true renaissance people!

    Sim JansSim Jansپیش ماه
  • I learned yesterday that instead of saying center of attention, one can say cynosure. Basically: You: center of attention Me, an intellectual: cynosure Ok sorry I'll see myself out

    Sim JansSim Jansپیش ماه
  • Im watching this while drinking tea and it took me a while to realize what ur most used item is but when i did i literally spat out my tea thankfully my laptop wasn't damaged 😂

    Hugh JazzHugh Jazzپیش ماه
  • For some reason I come back to this video whenever I experience something new; my first kiss, first date, first boyfriend, ...

    P 21P 21پیش ماه
  • I am bi, and for everyone you needs to hear this, you are loved! No matter, who you love, how you look like, what's your religion or what ever! If you don't hurt anybody, its fine!❤

    SolvejSolvejپیش ماه
  • Hey, I think it would be good for your mental health, to go to a therapist and talking to an stranger/professional!

    SolvejSolvejپیش ماه
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  • "Look hot as hell" she literally looks amazing on trash bag

    paloma sanmartinpaloma sanmartinپیش ماه
  • rules of IRworldrs, q&a sessions must happen on the floor!!

    ForTomorrowTodayForTomorrowTodayپیش ماه
  • didn't felt the time while I was watching hdhdhdhd

    dream hope keep goingdream hope keep goingپیش 2 ماه
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    Alexa MillerAlexa Millerپیش 2 ماه
  • You're my favourite youtuber now. Period.

    Sharanya BijlaniSharanya Bijlaniپیش 2 ماه
  • I love you so much!!! Thank you for creating the channel. I enjoy watching your videos so much and you say so many things I can relate to. When I feel overwhelmed and tired and depressed I turn on your vids and I feel better whether it's because I feel that I'm not the only one who experience all of these or you make every video so much interesting and light up my mood. I just hope that you adore yourself because you are fucking great. I wish we were friends 😹. Thank you!!!!

    PolinaPolinaپیش 2 ماه
  • please i'm a lesbian but i just want to be the mature girl at the sleepover that has a bunch of information on boys, already has breasts and her period and is super open

    not so cheery onot so cheery oپیش 2 ماه
  • I love you I feel like we’re friends through the screen ❤️🥲

    stephanie stambukstephanie stambukپیش 2 ماه
  • Love you. You are so human. X

    mandieredsmandieredsپیش 2 ماه
  • You are so brave to be able to talk about everything like you do kudos.

    Fishing I.T. GuyFishing I.T. Guyپیش 2 ماه
  • the "hang in there if you guys are still in quarantine" got me. it's been 7 months since this video came out😭

    lexi klexi kپیش 2 ماه
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    Emma ThoellEmma Thoellپیش 2 ماه
  • you are beautiful

    Jel IvegliaJel Ivegliaپیش 2 ماه
  • Thank you for being authentic 👑

    VicTorri WhiteVicTorri Whiteپیش 2 ماه
  • Welcome to the club🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

    almaalmaپیش 2 ماه
  • I love watching your videos when I am eating, its like having a little girl chat. This video was exactly long enough for me to eat my minestrone soup :)

    Lydia OLydia Oپیش 2 ماه
  • Love youuuuu

    LoolvideoloolLoolvideoloolپیش 2 ماه

    Sam MullenSam Mullenپیش 2 ماه
  • You a real one

    Keyanna JeffersonKeyanna Jeffersonپیش 3 ماه
  • I hooked up with a woman *blush *blush *blush love u babe 💖 its ok to feel confused 😕 and loads of respect 🙌 for your opinions about sustainability i wish more ppl would open thier eyes to it

    curious nitacurious nitaپیش 3 ماه
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    Mai NguyễnMai Nguyễnپیش 3 ماه
  • i really am not into astrology, but ashley is a taurus (has taurus energy) if I've ever seen one

    Finley GreyFinley Greyپیش 3 ماه
  • wow i really like it

    Alexandra LevchenkoAlexandra Levchenkoپیش 3 ماه
  • person behind the persona brought me here

    Sakshi ShroffSakshi Shroffپیش 3 ماه
  • You make me want to get bangs

    Sondra HaywoodSondra Haywoodپیش 3 ماه
    • I did

      Lavanya balajiLavanya balajiپیش 2 ماه
  • Thanks for being so real and supportive about homosexuality. It was really inspiring and I’m super glad that you are so willing to help us know that we’re not alone. Love you Ashley!

    Eva ConnollyEva Connollyپیش 3 ماه
  • “One of my favourite eras was 2019”😂😂

    Ioana SIoana Sپیش 3 ماه
  • I know you put a huge amount of work into editing your videos but i mostly watch them for what you say and the way you talk.

    Ioana SIoana Sپیش 3 ماه
  • im going from tears (5:34) to laughter (“i think we all know” ) in a matter if seconds😂

    Ioana SIoana Sپیش 3 ماه
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    Mai NguyễnMai Nguyễnپیش 3 ماه
  • I shouldn't but I wish I had the shit experience of covid. The worse thing working in fast-food I had to deal with is wearing mask and washing my hands after every money exchange. I kept my job and was able to pay all my bills with no problem. I never went into "quarantine".. I feel like I missed out on my self realization and growth that so many people had in 2020

    Phoenix RosePhoenix Roseپیش 3 ماه
  • Fuckin’...

    Dane TolentinoDane Tolentinoپیش 3 ماه
  • Found your videos by chance because I was looking for "basics you should have in your closet" and now I have been binge watching your channel for day! Love your videos Ashley and how transparent you are.

    Marta PitMarta Pitپیش 3 ماه
  • Ok i just want to say, I love ashleyyyyyyy shes so transparent and honest and funny and stylishhhh

    Gen SavoieGen Savoieپیش 3 ماه
  • hey ashley i think you should start a podcast. we love listening to you talk!

    Wajdia AthirahWajdia Athirahپیش 3 ماه
  • I just wanted to say that I came across your videos a long time ago on my other youtube account and I recently have been watching more of your videos on my new account! I love your content! You are such an inspiration and an incredible personality! I resonate with many of the things you talk about in your videos and today I felt such a closeness when you talked about your sexuality, I am sending so much love your way :)

    Syranda Wiley de NavarroSyranda Wiley de Navarroپیش 3 ماه
  • On bisexuality: I also felt like an imposter as a woman who was attracted to everyone but had only been in one serious relationship (with someone who happens to be male). And I felt like I had to prove my bisexuality to myself by being in a serious lesbian relationship. I think I overall made it harder on myself by assigning this quota, and by extension harder to naturally find women that I was truly interested in. When I eventually did something with another girl, I felt awful because it felt like i was using her for personal justification. Its hard to explain, but I hope the idea gets across? I guess my point is that other bisexual girls relate to you. And I think its sad that bisexuality is normalized, but hasn't been normalized long enough that girls feel free to like dicks and vaginas without feeling the need to prove their sexuality to themselves.

  • I want to take it to the next level. Please show me your all American gun collection ❤️

    AurorAAurorAپیش 3 ماه
  • Hang in there, your a beautiful person. Love your videos...

    1rwjwith ToneDog1rwjwith ToneDogپیش 3 ماه
  • 4:32 before i continue watching - how about some therapy?

    gerlindelanggerlindelangپیش 3 ماه
  • How can they not love you ...you are so raw so relatable....awww new subscriber here!

    Shaday Ann WalkerShaday Ann Walkerپیش 3 ماه
  • omg yes! we need a kelly x ashley collab!

    vive librevive libreپیش 3 ماه
  • Hearing all about your "toxic relation" I thing you are just where you supposed to be right now to heal. Be safe and enjoy.

    Johanna GarzónJohanna Garzónپیش 3 ماه
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  • when she said her favourite era was *2019* for a moment I thought 10 more years had gone by while I was chilling in my house all day and that was... believable.

    ἀγάπηἀγάπηپیش 3 ماه
  • Anita HendricksAnita Hendricksپیش 3 ماه
  • Your answer on the sustainability vs fast fashion question was the most well put and thought through I’ve seen so far on IRworld. Most you tubers preach sustainability as if everyone has the financial ability to follow this trend. Thank you for being so down to earth you’ve gained my respect for that.

    Just MeJust Meپیش 3 ماه
  • This is the most real q&a ive ever seen. You’re relatable because of this rawness. Thanks for that! We feel you girl! :)

    Just MeJust Meپیش 3 ماه
  • I know this was 5months ago but can we get one more video like this? If not one, 30?

    Abhipsha BiswalAbhipsha Biswalپیش 3 ماه
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    jose bonifaciojose bonifacioپیش 3 ماه
  • Gosh!!! You look soooooo beautiful 😻

    Li ALi Aپیش 3 ماه
  • ashley: i have lived here for 6 months, and i dont hate this apartment yet ashley’s stalker: let me change that for u 😀🧻🖊

    Mica GMica Gپیش 3 ماه
  • ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I live in jersey. Can we be best friends already lol

    Alyssa DanaAlyssa Danaپیش 3 ماه
  • if your fave atla character is toph, you're bi, 100%

    Eva DalmaijerEva Dalmaijerپیش 4 ماه
  • HOW ARE YOU DOING TODAY LOVE 💗 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰☺️☺️☺️☺️👨🏽‍🦽🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💐💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💋💗💋👨🏽‍🦽🥰😍

    Ryan Carlson. JeffreyRyan Carlson. Jeffreyپیش 4 ماه
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      Ryan Carlson. JeffreyRyan Carlson. Jeffreyپیش 4 ماه
  • ashley what's ur mbti

    yolandayolandaپیش 4 ماه
  • 2:36: There has never been a situation to which I relate more than this. At night when I am trying to sleep and mostly making up scenarios in my head, one thing leads to another and suddenly I remember this stupid thing, when I was in, I don't know, maybe 7th grade which was cringey or one time in 3rd, my classmates bullied me or basically how I was a bad person because I was constantly bullied but when I saw a person struggling, I put them down by just being mean to them. I always had this superiority complex around them. I was just a bad person, there is literally no excuse for it. I will be reminded of all this and start bawling my eyes out. It's the shame that takes over, I cry for an hour.

    Kavya SKavya Sپیش 4 ماه
  • You could make such a good podcast

    Genevieve -Genevieve -پیش 4 ماه

    Adelle DelorisAdelle Delorisپیش 4 ماه
  • omg who is she, she is so pretty

    Emily FEmily Fپیش 4 ماه
  • I've always had a feeling i wasnt straight but listening to you coming out as bi made me accept myself a little more for being bi. I also have that same internalized biphobia where i think im just doing it for attention. But hearing you and what that christian lady said really helped me love you Ashley :)

    I have no IdeaI have no Ideaپیش 4 ماه
  • HII!! going through your videos bc i’m alone quarantined and i just fucking love you so much and hope you are finally getting to experience NY a little more now as well as feeling super full in yourself 💛💛💛

    peyton rogerspeyton rogersپیش 4 ماه
  • Oh my god! I felt that!! The lactose intolerance and craving for dairy are real!!! If I ever go to Manhattan, I would really love to meet you! I’d love to be your friend! Honestly Becuase I work in a nursing home, even the oldies of religion are like, “hey you like both sexes? Awesome!! Be my wing man” My favorite character from ATLA is Tai Lee, she like Toph was an upper class woman who didn’t care for their life style ans wanted to find herself

    American RetsukoAmerican Retsukoپیش 4 ماه
  • I really like your look at fast fashion because as someone who grew up very much not rich I lived mostly off kmart clothing and had this constant guilt, I learnt how to thrift as a teen but when it came to basic items that I just needed in my wardrobe everything I owned was made by some poor Bangladeshi children

    Phoebe RosePhoebe Roseپیش 4 ماه